I had been in a sexless marriage and it feels unfulfilling deep inside. It started with an emotional disconnect and continued on the facade of motherhood liabilities. This dry spell continued for 5 long years and I coped by binge eating, piling up 10 kilos in the intervening period. It [...]
I am at the mall, waiting for an old schoolmate of mine who I haven’t seen in over two decades. Interestingly, he and I never spoke in school. Unlike my present vocal self, I was shy and demure as a child. It was difficult for me to talk to my [...]
Sex isn’t all about penetration. Here’s how to let go of goals and absorb all the joy and sensations that come with sex. In his mediations about sex and intimacy, Osho writes about how world religions have been wrong in condemning sex as a sin. He evokes the richness of [...]
I am a natural flirt. I flirt with life and with everyone I come in contact with – the waiters, bartenders, receptionists, men and women of all ages. However, I rarely come across someone who matches my flirting skills. This art of flirting came to me with my sexual self-awareness [...]
Up till now I only had a nominal knowledge of kiss; the one we do straight from the mouth to mouth; sometimes with mild variations such as biting and nibbling through teeth, and tonguing inside the mouth. The manner in which I and my lover(s) had sex was scripted, predictable [...]
Caressing “on dayslike thisI need you torun your fingersthrough my hairand speak softly”- Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey I was walking sluggishly with my school bag hung behind my back like a frog and a grey Milton water bottle in hand towards the 2 wheeler parking area. I took out my [...]
“What’s on your neck?” asked my friend who was sitting next to me in my writing class. She was referring to the plush red mark engraved on the side of my neck. I smiled as she announced to the class, “She has a hickey!” I was named as the ‘hickey [...]
“On days like this I need you to run your fingers through my hair and speak softly”- Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey I was walking sluggishly with my school bag hung behind my back like a frog and a grey Milton water bottle in hand towards the 2 wheeler parking [...]
I’m anxiously tapping the enter key of my computer; lest I forget the nuances of the experience I just had an hour back. The partner is in the bathroom relieving himself and the kid has gone to school. The mother is snoring in the other room to compensate for the [...]
“A basic lesson to be learned is that we all must be responsible for our own pleasure and our own orgasms. We cannot expect our partner to do it all for us. To learn how to take responsibility of pleasure for ourselves can be learned. The secret is to pay [...]
During the few times, they met, chai, smokes, books, hugs, and conversations were exchanged. Which is when he mentioned his expertise in massage to her. She was in need of one. So she reached his house at the scheduled time. After setting up the lady's favorite track on YouTube, he [...]
