When I Became Jealous

By |2019-05-23T07:43:55+00:00October 9th, 2018|Mind, Women|

I'm yet to travel overseas and I yearn for it. The yearning gets deeper when I see other people sharing their photographs, experiences, exquisite and eclectic knowledge on Social Media. Lucky them! As I confess this, a part of me immediately comes forward to salvage me from low self-esteem. It [...]

When I Left My Ego

By |2019-04-16T09:40:37+00:00October 9th, 2018|Relationship, Women|

I read somewhere, that human beings have a virgin tendency for violence. This apothegm is so true for me. Tonight while returning home from work, I and my live-in partner had a small argument in the auto-rickshaw. It so happened that he wanted to show me a video that he [...]

Cheat Sheet for Dating me

By |2019-04-16T09:41:32+00:00October 9th, 2018|Relationship, Women|

Two weeks back, I met this man who was three decades older than me. He was here on a business trip and wanted to catch up over drinks. An affluent banker, South Indian, entrepreneur. I think he scored all brownie points to get me to say Yes. I went in [...]

When I supported an Unemployed Partner

By |2019-04-16T09:44:05+00:00October 8th, 2018|Relationship, Women|

I've supported two non-earning 'male' partners in the past, each for a year. Have put 'male' in italics as typically, non-earning partner refers to a female. Indeed it is difficult, but then I wonder, how millions of men with their dependent wives do not find it difficult. In the course [...]

Sitting Among College Students I Felt Old

By |2019-04-16T09:45:00+00:00October 8th, 2018|Body, Women|

Of late, I've developed an interest in learning and working in the area of Sexuality Education. Having a rudimentary knowledge in the subject, I decided to join a volunteer fellowship program from an NGO. The invite mail from the program coordinator addressed us as 'See you Guys' and made me suspect for [...]

Our Bodies Speak Too

By |2019-04-16T09:47:36+00:00September 24th, 2018|Body, Women|

Sometime back I attended a workshop on 'Body Rights'. In that session, the facilitator asked us to form pairs and play a 5 min 'Body Mirror' game. In that game, one participant in the pair becomes a body and the other participant becomes a mirror. i) The body will do [...]

The Garden of Love

By |2019-04-16T09:49:09+00:00September 20th, 2018|Relationship|

It was a Sunday morning and Mandi House looked like a freshly brewed cup of Nescafe. It was just me and Suhas walking on the vacant streets with a stray cat in company. The small suburban houses on the sidewalk flashed by like the pages of a book as we [...]

Love and Passion are at Opposite Ends

By |2019-04-16T09:50:12+00:00September 13th, 2018|Relationship, Women|

I'm a romantic. The romantics refuse a life without passion; they swear that they'll never give up on true love. They are the perennial seekers, looking for the person for whom desire never fizzle. If passion is on decline, love must be on deathbed. They mourn the loss of excitement [...]

The Hidden Stains at Workplaces

By |2019-04-16T09:51:20+00:00September 10th, 2018|Women|

I was sitting at the foyer of JW Marriot, Saket, waiting to meet a c-level executive for a job discussion. As unpredictable as it can get, the head honcho was due to arrive in the next five minutes when my periods started. In that nick of a moment, I was [...]

Jealousy Spurred by Social Media

By |2019-04-16T09:52:08+00:00September 6th, 2018|Relationship, Women|

This morning, I opened my son's Facebook account after a long time. The account was created 6 years back by my ex-husband, and as I opened it I saw a flurry of notifications on the bell icon. I clicked it only to discover that most of these updates belonged to [...]

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